As an international student landing in a new country, trying to figure out money, education, and life, got hit by a strong accusation of rape. I hate this word from my guts. Without any support of family (I couldn't inform them something huge like this has happened to me), friends, and money to fight, the feelings and emotions that take over my mindset was another level of pain and suffering. Knowing that I am not wrong, just this phase took over my whole being. I contemplated my choices, run, kill yourself, or deal with it. I decided to stand up for my truth and kept going with self-belief and confidence. Truth prevailed.
Life in Australia was different than India. Running on a roller coaster, work, studies, pay your bills, and many times it felt exhausting. Many of my friends, after finshing Diplomas were moving into courses that were getting more premenancy in Australia, I just wanted progress in my hospitality profession, but I was not getting the opportunity that I deserved. Giving up and follwing what everone was doing was easy, but my mind knew that my horizons were bigger and better. I started carving my own path to US, got an internship in a gorgeous resort on a 12 miles wide Island in South Carolina. Life was looking amazing, I fell in love with my new life in the US. Happiness unlocked!
Negative beliefs can trap you in self-doubt. I will guide you in recognising and transforming these beliefs to empower your mindset. Embrace a new perspective that fosters confidence, resilience, and unstoppable motivation.
After my work in the resort in the US, I came back to Australia for few months only to go back to the US to do my Bachelors of Science in Hopitality Administration. A global program with students from all over the world. We lived together and were more like family, it was great fun! After finishing my Hospitality program, I joined an MBA program, and that's where I met my ex-wife. We fell in love, and decided to get married. Moved back to Australia, had a beatiful child and were separated in couple of years. Why did this happen, I knew from the begining, before even the marriage that some of our core values were not aligned, but love was there so I thought we would able to manage, but life had something else planned. During the separation, the mental trauma that brought pain was humngous. I use to drive from point A to point B not knowing how I got to point B. I lost my self-beleif, my confidence in myself. Went through many years of pain, then decided enough is enough, started going out, worked on myself, and met a beautiful lady in a language exchange program, and fell in love. LIfe begins again!
Resilience is the key to thriving through challenges. I will teach you practical tools to manage stress, adapt to change, and bounce back stronger. Together, we'll build a resilient mindset to face any situation with confidence.
For a long period of time, my son was staying with me every weekend, until it stopped completely due to travel restrictions for him to go overseas. He was angry with his dad, and stopped staying with me at all. My ex wife filed for divorce after many years, and now it was time for custody battle. I fought for my child with the money I did not have. I knew what it feels like not to have the presence of a father, as I lost my own father at the age of 12. I kept fighting until consent orders were made and we went on our first father/son holiday to Singapore and India. Acess granted, bond begins again,
Effective leaders inspire and motivate. I will help you hone your leadership qualities, improve strategic thinking, and enhance your influence. These skills are vital for personal growth and professional success.
By default I got into the Union work in Australia, progress followed as I was aligned with the work that was assigned to my skills and talent. From growth Organiser to National growth Organiser, managing teams accross three states, I was having fun! In the meantime, I already srated carving my path to my purpose of life, with clarity and conviction. I started Inspiring singles, with a vision - to live in a world where singles connect free from self-doubts and unhealthy fears. All came from my exepreinces, my pains, and my happiness of life being single, separated/divorced single, and divorced dad. I started doing many different events for some of some of the amazing people I met during these events, I even signed up for a lease cafe next to Prahran Market, which failed due to lease issue. I was going to make it hub for singles with all the fun, happiness, and confidence building events taking place under one roof. Stocks and Share trading is another profession that I begin during the time I was working for the Union. Until today, I am in this amazing roller coaster journey of money that teaches you emotional intellegnce on another level.
Relationships flourish with understanding and effective communication. I will support you in developing empathy, active listening, and conflict resolution skills to foster stronger bonds with loved ones and colleagues.
What many of us don't understand is that our environment is a very strong force. The environment can force a human being's pillars of life to crumble. I was called into the police headquarters in Melbourne because I was in a group of men and women partying for the first time after Covid 19 lockdowns were removed. One lady in the group accused another fellow for Rape. The officer who took my report on the night of events seemed a bit interested in history and geography than the main accused. I kind of connected the the dots, my history of the accusation of rape, and the same very night me and the lady who accused the other fellow also got a bit close to me. He took the report but never gave me a copy, it was on a blank sheet of paper with my signature on it. Numerous things followed after that, not for months but years that gave me surity that I have been controlled by the environment to think, that I can't do nothing, I am not good enough, I am a waste of space, I can't win. Sometimes, you've to fly above the storm and sometimes you've to face the storm. When your mind is stronger than the environment, when your truth is bigger than environment, they can keep you down but not out. You cannnot keep a good man down for too long, and here I am back again.
Living authentically and joyfully is within your reach. We will explore your passions, set meaningful goals, and develop habits that support your happiness. Together, we'll craft a life filled with purpose and enthusiasm.